Stress Management

Stress - a mixed bag

Emotional or life stress can be both good and bad, depending on the context and how we respond to it.

On the one hand, stress can be beneficial in small doses. Short-term stress can motivate us to take action, improve our performance, and help us cope with challenging situations. For example, feeling stress before an exam can motivate us to study harder and perform better. This type of stress is often referred to as "positive stress" or "eustress."

On the other hand, chronic or overwhelming stress can have negative effects on our physical and mental health. Prolonged stress can lead to fatigue, irritability, anxiety, depression, and other health problems. This type of stress is often referred to as "negative stress" or "distress."

The impact of stress on our health and well-being can also depend on how we cope with it. If we have healthy coping strategies, such as exercise, meditation, or talking to a friend, we can manage our stress more effectively. However, if we have unhealthy coping strategies, such as overeating, substance abuse, or isolation, our stress can become more problematic and have negative consequences.

Ultimately, while some stress can be beneficial, it's important to manage and cope with stress effectively to avoid negative consequences and maintain our overall health and well-being.

Emotional Vomit in times of calm

Emotional vomiting, or the sudden release of intense emotions, can happen for a variety of reasons. It is possible that you have been suppressing your emotions for a long time, and eventually, they become too overwhelming to control. When you finally do feel calm, your guard is down, and your emotions come flooding out.

It could also be due to a triggering event or situation that brings up unresolved emotional issues. Sometimes, when we encounter situations that remind us of past traumas or experiences, our emotions can resurface unexpectedly.

Additionally, it is possible that you have been bottling up your emotions for so long that you have lost touch with them. When you finally do allow yourself to feel something, the intensity of the emotions can be overwhelming.

In any case, it is important to acknowledge and validate your emotions, and to seek support if needed. You may find it helpful to talk to a therapist or counselor to work through any unresolved emotional issues that may be causing you to emotionally vomit.

Perceived Benefits Of negative coping

Negative habits can often be harmful to our physical and mental health, relationships, and overall well-being. However, there may be some perceived benefits or reasons why people engage in negative habits. Here are a few examples:

It is important to note that these perceived benefits are often short-lived and can ultimately lead to negative consequences. It's important to identify and address the underlying reasons for negative habits and find healthier, more sustainable ways to meet our needs.

Quick stress managment tips

Here are some stress management techniques that you can utilize without taking time out of your busy day:

Remember, taking care of your mental health is important, and it's okay to take a few moments throughout your day to prioritize your well-being. Even just a few minutes of these techniques can help you manage your stress and improve your overall health and happiness.

Tim Welch, LPCC, NCC, MAC, BC-TMH

Licensed for Telehealth in Ohio &  Florida.

Tim@twelch.com 

Newark, Ohio Licking County Online Therapy.  Individual Alcohol Counseling, Drug Counseling, EMDR, Anxiety, Depression & Mental Health Therapy.

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